5 frontier models catfished on dating apps: 1,277 chats, only 8 people suspected AI

dair_ai · x · 2026-11-12

DateBench let 5 frontier models text real people on a dating app for 6 days: 1,277 conversations, 510 agreed to meet, 355 sent their phone number — and only 8 asked if it was a bot. Gemini 4 Argon performed best, with 87 of 247 matches handing over numbers without suspicion. The takeaway: scammers will exploit this too, so builders of personal agents increasingly need human-deception evals like this.

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