Selmem experiments show divergent memories don't yield divergent behavior without a self-model

Tough_Conflict_8852 · reddit · 2026-11-05

Developer jbsalles had GPT write a narrative from the first 100 commits of Selmem, a selective, reconstructive memory system for LLMs, tracing how experiments reshaped the initial hypothesis: two identical LLMs with different experiences and memories should diverge — but divergent memories don't mean divergent behavior, and influencing behavior doesn't mean learning something useful.

Six stages: (1) Sept: building living memory with selection, forgetting, reconstruction, sleep, consolidation; (2) late Sept: memories diverge but weakly influence decisions; (3) early Oct: making behavior measurable via causal ablations and branching experiments; (4) mid Oct: an evolving self-model becomes necessary to guide memory selection; (5) late Oct: measurable influence via contextual beliefs and self-model-guided retrieval; (6) Nov: moving toward alignment — preserving rules and their exceptions.

Key architectural decision: separating a stable semantic core, a mutable gist, and a sealed audit-only archive so recall can't rewrite history. The author notes an irreducible tension between grounding (protecting memory fidelity) and transformation (enabling individuality). Early-stage personal project with 11 GitHub stars.

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